
Excerpt
It struck on a day I never expected—like the day I lost my father, on my birthday. The same jolt ⚡️ twice. Bitter and sweet at once.
Intro
Some experiences arrive unannounced and unforgettable. The day held joy—time with loved ones, a wonderful dinner, thoughtful gifts 🎁 (I treasure shirts and cologne and keep them for years). Yet the soul-stretching overshadowed the sweetness, and the ache still lingers.
Notes from Elder Neal A. Maxwell
• “It takes time to prepare for eternity.”
• God customizes our curriculum—He gives what we need, not always what we like.
• Discipleship is daily; steady choosing matters more than dramatic moments.
• Meekness is strength under control.
• Cheerfully submit: trust His timing and tutoring.
• Be grounded and settled in Christ to endure well, not just long.
Perspective
The lingering pain doesn’t mean I failed; it means the lesson matters. Like completed IT projects etched in memory, some days don’t fade—they shape.
Practice (today, not someday)
• Pause to breathe and pray before I speak.
• Trade rumination for one small act of service.
• Write three lines of gratitude (including a gift I’ll lovingly keep).
• Use meek words with firm boundaries.
Final Reflection
Bitter because it hurt. Sweet because love showed up. Both can be true while God stretches my capacity for trust and kindness.
Pocket I’m keeping
“Customized by a loving Father.” Not random storms—tailored tutoring.
What I hear now
Be still. Do the next right thing. Let Me do the shaping.
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