Author: jetnmariano

  • Exchange Online: Mailbox Used/Quota/Available (Redacted)

    Excerpt

    Exchange Online sometimes reports mailbox sizes with “Unlimited” wrappers that break simple math. Today I built a one-liner-friendly PowerShell snippet that returns Used GB, Quota GB, and Available GB—even when EXO wraps values in Unlimited<T>.

    Intro

    I needed the available mailbox size for [mailbox]@[domain] without exposing tenant internals. The usual TotalItemSize parsing failed because EXO returned Unlimited<ByteQuantifiedSize>. Here’s the redacted approach that works reliably and falls back cleanly.

    Notes from {Speaker}

    • Context: Exchange Online + PowerShell; target was [mailbox]@[domain].
    • Constraint: TotalItemSize and ProhibitSendQuota show Unlimited wrappers or localized strings.
    • Goal: Get UsedGB / QuotaGB / AvailableGB with no tenant secrets.

    Perspective (direct quotes)

    “If it’s Unlimited<T>, ask for .Value—and always guard with IsUnlimited.”
    “When objects don’t expose bytes, regex the (123,456 bytes) pattern as a fallback.”

    Practice (today, not someday)

    Use this redacted snippet. It works with Get-EXO* and falls back to classic cmdlets:

    # EXO connection (redacted UPN)
    Connect-ExchangeOnline -UserPrincipalName [me] -ShowBanner:$false
    
    $upn = '[mailbox]@[domain]'   # e.g., [email protected]
    
    try {
      $stat = Get-EXOMailboxStatistics -Identity $upn -ErrorAction Stop
      $mbx  = Get-EXOMailbox           -Identity $upn -PropertySets Quota -ErrorAction Stop
    
      $usedBytes = if ($stat.TotalItemSize.PSObject.Properties.Name -contains 'Value') {
        [int64]$stat.TotalItemSize.Value.ToBytes()
      } else {
        [int64](([regex]::Match($stat.TotalItemSize.ToString(), '\(([\d,]+)\sbytes\)')).Groups[1].Value -replace ',','')
      }
    
      $quotaBytes = if ($mbx.ProhibitSendQuota -and `
                        ($mbx.ProhibitSendQuota.PSObject.Properties.Name -contains 'IsUnlimited') -and `
                        -not $mbx.ProhibitSendQuota.IsUnlimited) {
        [int64]$mbx.ProhibitSendQuota.Value.ToBytes()
      } elseif ($mbx.ProhibitSendQuota.ToString() -notmatch 'Unlimited') {
        [int64](([regex]::Match($mbx.ProhibitSendQuota.ToString(), '\(([\d,]+)\sbytes\)')).Groups[1].Value -replace ',','')
      } else { $null }
    }
    catch {
      $stat = Get-MailboxStatistics -Identity $upn
      $mbx  = Get-Mailbox           -Identity $upn
      $usedBytes  = [int64](([regex]::Match($stat.TotalItemSize.ToString(), '\(([\d,]+)\sbytes\)')).Groups[1].Value -replace ',','')
      $quotaBytes = if ($mbx.ProhibitSendQuota.ToString() -match 'Unlimited') { $null }
                    else { [int64](([regex]::Match($mbx.ProhibitSendQuota.ToString(), '\(([\d,]+)\sbytes\)')).Groups[1].Value -replace ',','') }
    }
    
    $usedGB  = [math]::Round($usedBytes/1GB, 2)
    $quotaGB = if ($quotaBytes) { [math]::Round($quotaBytes/1GB, 2) } else { $null }
    $availGB = if ($quotaBytes) { [math]::Round(($quotaBytes-$usedBytes)/1GB, 2) } else { $null }
    
    [pscustomobject]@{
      Mailbox            = $upn
      UsedGB             = $usedGB
      QuotaGB            = $quotaGB
      AvailableGB        = $availGB
      StorageLimitStatus = $stat.StorageLimitStatus
    }
    

    Final Reflection

    EXO’s objects are powerful but quirky. Guarding for IsUnlimited, using .Value.ToBytes(), and keeping a regex fallback turns a flaky one-off into a repeatable tool.

    Pocket I’m Keeping

    Parse what’s there, not what you expect.” When APIs return wrapped or localized strings, a small fallback (regex for (#### bytes)) saves the day.

    What I Hear Now (direct quotes)

    “Measure in bytes, report in GB.”
    “Handle Unlimited first, then do math.”
    “One clean object out—every time.”

    Link to the Script

    Microsoft Exchange Online PowerShell (Get-EXOMailbox, Get-Mailbox) — official docs

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  • Restoring Delivery Safely: SCL-1 + Tenant Allow/Block List

    Message trace + quarantine check (redacted): verified deliveries and deployed a Priority-0 SCL-1 allow rule for [partner-domain]

    Excerpt

    When a trusted partner’s emails started landing in spam (or nowhere at all), I traced the path, set a top-priority allow rule, and used Defender’s Allow/Block list to force clean delivery—without exposing internal details.

    Intro

    Today’s note is for admins who wear the on-call hat. Messages from [partner-domain] weren’t reaching our users. Some were quarantined as spam; others never showed. I documented the exact, reversible steps I used to restore delivery while keeping our environment safe and auditable. All vendor names, mailboxes, IPs, and hostnames are redacted.

    Notes from {Speaker}

    • Symptom: Mail from [partner-domain] was flagged/filtered; end users reported “not delivered” or “went to Junk.”
    • Tools used: Exchange Admin Center, Microsoft 365 Defender, Exchange Online PowerShell.
    • Constraints: Multiple legacy transport rules; need a change that’s surgical, auditable, and easy to roll back.
    • Guardrails: Prefer allowlisting at the domain + spoof layer (not blanket bypass for everything). Keep headers/SPF/DKIM intact for future tuning.

    Perspective (direct quotes)

    “No decision is a decision—so we’ll choose the safe, reversible one.”
    “Top-priority SCL-1 with Stop processing beats noisy downstream rules.”
    “If spoof intelligence is tripping, meet it where it lives: Tenant Allow/Block.”

    Practice (today, not someday)

    1) Triage — see what actually happened

    Connect-ExchangeOnline -UserPrincipalName [me] -ShowBanner:$false
    Get-MessageTrace -StartDate (Get-Date).AddDays(-2) -EndDate (Get-Date) `
      -SenderAddress *@[partner-domain] |
      Select Received,SenderAddress,RecipientAddress,Status
    
    # If quarantined:
    Connect-IPPSSession
    Get-QuarantineMessage -StartReceivedDate (Get-Date).AddDays(-2) `
      -EndReceivedDate (Get-Date) -SenderAddress *@[partner-domain]
    

    2) Create a top-priority transport rule to force deliver

    • Condition: Sender domain is [partner-domain]
    • Action: Set SCL to -1
    • Option: Stop processing more rules
    • Priority: 0 (top)

    PowerShell (redacted names):

    New-TransportRule -Name "Allow [partner-domain] (SCL-1)" `
      -SenderDomainIs "[partner-domain]" -SetSCL -1 -StopRuleProcessing $true -Priority 0
    

    3) Add an org-wide Allow (Defender)

    • Defender → Policies & rules → Tenant Allow/Block List
    • Domains & addresses → Add → Allow → [partner-domain]
    • If Message Trace shows Spoof/High Confidence Phish, also allow under Spoofing for the exact sending pair.

    4) (Optional) Anti-spam policy allow list

    • Anti-spam inbound policy → Allowed domains → add [partner-domain].

    5) Verify

    Get-TransportRule "Allow [partner-domain] (SCL-1)" |
      fl Name,Priority,State,SenderDomainIs,SetSCL,StopRuleProcessing
    
    # Send a new test; re-run Get-MessageTrace to confirm Status = Delivered
    

    6) Longer-term hygiene (ask the sender)

    • Ensure SPF passes (include correct outbound hosts).
    • Turn on DKIM for their domain.
    • Align DMARC policy gradually (none → quarantine → reject) once stable.

    Final Reflection

    Most “email is broken” moments aren’t outages—they’re safety systems doing their job a bit too eagerly. The win is balancing protection with precision so real mail flows and risky mail doesn’t.

    Pocket I’m Keeping

    Put the SCL-1 allow rule with Stop Processing at the top. It’s decisive, reversible, and neutralizes noisy legacy rules downstream.

    What I Hear Now (direct quotes)

    “Measure twice, move to Priority 0 once.”
    “Don’t fight spoof intelligence—configure it.”
    “Document the rollback the same minute you deploy the fix.”

    • Microsoft 365 Defender — Tenant Allow/Block List (TABL)
    • Exchange Online — Transport rules (mail flow rules)
    • Message trace in the modern EAC
      (references listed for context; links omitted for privacy—add your preferred docs when publishing)

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  • President Russell M. Nelson (1924–2025) — A Tribute | Marked In Time

    One of yesterday’s frames at Deseret Peak. Thank you, President Nelson, for teaching me where peace lives—inside the temple, inside covenants.

    Excerpt

    Nearly eight years he pointed us to Christ, the temple, and higher thinking. I saw one change up close: the move from LDS.org to ChurchofJesusChrist.org—sacred identity, careful work, and no lost mail.


    Intro

    Last night I felt both loss and gratitude. President Nelson’s invitations—think celestial, be a peacemaker, focus on the temple—have become a rhythm for me. One moment from his ministry is personal: I was on the support email engineering team during the transition from LDS.org to ChurchofJesusChrist.org and the updated Church symbol. Behind the scenes, we prayed, planned, and tested so identity would be clear and messages wouldn’t drop. MX, routing rules, list servers, SPF, DKIM, and countless aliases—all touched, all safeguarded so the Lord’s work could keep moving without a missed heartbeat.


    Notes from President Nelson

    • Correct the name of the Church and center everything on Jesus Christ.
    • Focus on the temple; go more often; live inside your covenants.
    • Home centered, Church supported worship; two hour Sunday schedule.
    • From home teaching to ministering—people over checklists.
    • Accelerate temple building; take covenants to more of God’s children.
    • Keep the Restoration moving; methods can adjust while doctrine remains.
    • Peacemakers needed; lift our gaze—think celestial.


    Witness — two moments that shaped him

    • 1976 flight: in a small prop plane, an engine “burst open and caught on fire,” the aircraft dropped in a spiral, the flames went out, and they landed safely.
    • 2009 Mozambique: armed robbers put a gun to his head and pulled the trigger—“the gun did not fire”—and he and Sister Wendy felt the Lord’s peace and protection.


    Foundation parallel — Salt Lake Temple and spiritual earthquakes

    President Nelson used the renovation of the Salt Lake Temple’s foundation as a living parable. Engineers are reinforcing stone to withstand earthquakes and time; likewise, we take “extraordinary measures” to strengthen our personal spiritual foundations so we can stand steady when life shakes.

    “Whenever any kind of upheaval occurs in your life, the safest place to be spiritually is living inside your temple covenants.”
    A simple promise, and it matches my experience: when I live inside covenants, spiritual earthquakes don’t topple me—they tutor me.


    Perspective — direct quotes

    “I promise that increased time in the temple will bless your life in ways nothing else can.”
    “Whenever any kind of upheaval occurs in your life, the safest place to be spiritually is living inside your temple covenants.”


    Practice — today, not someday

    • Temple rhythm: two visits a week when possible, with time to linger in the Celestial Room.
    • Ministering: one person to love and lift this week—quietly.
    • Peacemaking: choose the soft answer once a day.
    • Think celestial: make one decision with eternity in mind.


    Final Reflection

    Deseret Peak yesterday surprised me—the far drive, the light under the arch, and a whisper I needed. Layton’s pools, Syracuse’s grasses, Taylorsville’s familiar glow, Saratoga Springs where I first learned to notice the nudge—each room speaks differently, yet the message is the same: build on Christ. President Nelson’s legacy feels very close to the ground for me—temples and small daily choices that shape a life. Foundations strengthened. Identity clarified. The work moves forward.


    Pocket I’m Keeping

    Safest place spiritually—inside my temple covenants.


    What I Hear Now — direct quotes

    Focus on the temple.
    Think celestial.

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  • Marked in Time — “Focus on the Temple”

    Deseret Peak Utah Temple at sunset—sunbeams radiating behind the spire; foreground includes a ONE WAY sign and sweeping curve leading to the grounds.

    Excerpt

    There’s one way that never fails: return to the temple. Time there refines the soul and tunes it to Christ.


    Intro

    The sun dropped behind the Oquirrhs and the rays split the sky while I stood by a road sign that simply read ONE WAY—its arrow bending toward the House of the Lord. That felt exactly right. My weeks are fuller and messier than I can say, yet the path that steadies me is singular: one way to the Celestial Room. I need that room every week. Every temple where I’ve lingered long in that quiet has offered a different whisper—no adjectives in English quite fit, only awe and a desire to stay.


    Notes from President Nelson

    • The Savior appeared to the Nephites at the temple—His house is filled with His power.
    • The Lord is accelerating temple building and access across the earth.
    Increased time in the temple blesses life in ways nothing else can.
    • The temple helps gather Israel and spiritually refine disciples.
    • A living prophet invites us to focus on the temple in ways we never have before.


    Perspective — direct quotes

    “I promise that increased time in the temple will bless your life in ways nothing else can.”
    “It is significant that the Savior chose to appear to the people at the temple.”


    Practice — today, not someday

    1. Weekly Celestial Room: plan one session each week and leave time to linger.
    2. Temple-first calendar: schedule temple time before the week fills with everything else.
    3. Gathering habit: bring a name or help someone get to the temple each month.

    Final Reflection

    The sign says One Way. President Nelson’s promise makes the direction clear: choose the temple, and the Lord will shape the heart in ways nothing else can. Windows glowed, rays fanned the sky, and I felt the familiar nudge—be here often, let Christ refine you.

    Pocket I’m Keeping


    “One way to peace and power this week: go to the temple.”

    What I Hear Now — direct quotes


    “Focus on the temple.”
    “He is making His temples more accessible.”


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  • MIT8 – “The Temple and Your Spiritual Foundation”

    Deseret Peak Utah Temple — blue hour after a 4:30 PM proxy endowment. Foundation steady, heart steady.

    Excerpt


    When life shakes, covenants hold. The temple is where Jesus Christ strengthens my foundation so I can stand steady through any upheaval.


    Intro

    I drove west to Tooele Valley for a late-afternoon proxy endowment at the new Deseret Peak Temple. It became a 5‑hour sacred errand—2 hours round‑trip, 2 hours in ordinance and 30 quiet minutes in the Celestial Room, and 1 hour making photographs at last light. President Nelson’s words about foundations felt tailor‑made for this day.


    Notes from President Nelson

    • The Salt Lake Temple’s seismic retrofit is a living parable: strengthen the foundation to withstand future shaking.
    • Our safest spiritual place is inside our temple covenants.
    • The temple centers us on Jesus Christ—His doctrine, ordinances, and power.
    • The Restoration continues; methods adjust by revelation while doctrine remains.
    • If distance or health limits attendance, rehearse your covenants and let Him teach you.
    • Go more often, not less; the temple becomes safety, solace, and revelation.
    • Build now—before the spiritual earthquakes come.


    Perspective — direct quotes

    “Whenever any kind of upheaval occurs in your life, the safest place to be spiritually is living inside your temple covenants.”
    “How firm is your foundation?”
    “Everything taught in the temple increases our understanding of Jesus Christ.”


    Practice — today, not someday

    1. Foundation checks: After each temple visit, write one way I’ll anchor to Christ this week.
    2. Covenant rehearsal: Set a weekly 10‑minute block to review the promises I’ve made and the power He offers.
    3. Regular appointments: Put the next proxy session on the calendar before leaving the parking lot.

    Final Reflection

    Looking through the arch toward a glowing House of the Lord, I felt why foundations matter. The drive, the ordinance, the quiet—each pressed me deeper into the covenant path. Cameras can’t capture the weight of peace, but they can remind me where it’s found. President Nelson’s plea is mercifully simple: strengthen the foundation now. The shaking will come; Christ holds.


    Pocket I’m Keeping

    Safest place to be—inside my temple covenants.”


    What I Hear Now — direct quotes

    “If ye are prepared ye shall not fear.”
    “How firm a foundation.”


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  • Marked In Time – “Stand in Holy Places”

    Layton Utah Temple — late afternoon, sun crowning the spire; shallow haze for a soft halo; foreground reds as a living border. iPhone, 26mm equiv.

    Excerpt

    In a shifting world, God’s laws don’t move. Standing in holy places anchors my heart and tunes my ears to revelation—often quiet, always real.


    Intro

    I came to the Layton Temple in July needing steadiness. Technology breaks, schedules slip, even good plans go sideways. Inside the temple, the noise falls away. President Monson’s call to “stand … in holy places, and be not moved” landed fresh. I felt why the Lord invites us to keep covenants and come back often—the temple is where He re-centers the soul.


    Notes from President Monson

    • God’s commandments are constant; they are commandments, not suggestions.
    • Prayer is our lifeline; God answers—in ways we recognize as we practice.
    • The world’s moral compass drifts, but Christ’s gospel holds steady.
    • Revelation comes when we’re worthy, willing, and in the right places.
    • Holy places (temples, homes, sacrament) give peace to weather life’s storms.
    • Inspiration is to be trusted and acted upon.


    Perspective — direct quotes

    “The Ten Commandments are just that—commandments.”
    “Our Father in Heaven is the same yesterday, today, and forever.”
    “Watch and pray always.”
    “Stand … in holy places, and be not moved.”


    Practice — today, not someday

    1. Temple time: schedule my next endowment/initiatory before I leave this post.
    2. Daily prayer slots: five quiet minutes morning and night—no phone, just scripture and a kneeling prayer.
    3. Holy ground at home: set a small, uncluttered spot for scripture, journal, and temple card—use it daily.

    Final Reflection

    In July I brought a hurried heart to the Layton Temple and left carrying peace. President Monson reminded me that God’s laws don’t flex with culture, and that revelation often whispers when I’m where He wants me to be. The temple slowed me to the Lord’s pace. It didn’t erase my problems, but it reframed them. I can face outages, delays, and disappointments without losing center. Holiness isn’t escape; it’s alignment. When I choose the Lord’s places, I hear the Lord’s voice.


    Pocket I’m Keeping

    Stand in holy places, and be not moved.” One line to carry into every room this week.


    What I Hear Now — direct quotes

    “The work of righteousness shall be peace.”
    “Draw near unto me and I will draw near unto you.”


    A Moment That Marked Me — Frankfurt, 1987 (Monson)

    President Monson told how, during the Frankfurt Germany Temple dedication, he felt a clear impression to call Peter Mourik as the first speaker—even after being told Brother Mourik wasn’t in the building. Trusting the Spirit, he announced him anyway. At that very moment, Brother Mourik felt prompted across town to drive to the temple and walked in as his name was called. This experience witnesses that worthy, timely impressions can be trusted—the Lord coordinates details we cannot see.


    Advantages of Standing in Holy Places (my takeaways)

    • Clarity: Temples tune the heart; choices sort into wise vs. unwise.
    • Protection: Covenants set boundaries that keep me safe when the world blurs lines.
    • Power to Act: The Spirit gives courage to do right things in the right order.
    • Peace: The promised effect of righteousness is quietness and assurance forever.
    • Memory: Heaven records; the temple helps me remember who I am and whose I am.

    Link to the Talk / Source

    Official text: Stand in Holy Places — President Thomas S. Monson.

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  • MIT8 — “Don’t You Quit” (Disneyland Fireworks)

    Sleeping Beauty Castle during the fireworks, framed by the Partners statue. Tripod + remote shutter, long exposure on the 14–24mm f/2.8G. Manual focus, no flash.

    Why this fits Elder Holland

    Elder Jeffrey R. Holland: “Don’t you quit. You keep walking. You keep trying. There is help and happiness ahead… Some blessings come soon, some come late… but they come.”
    Fireworks are a patience test. You compose in the dark, wait through false starts, and trust the next burst will fill the sky. That is discipleship in miniature: keep your place, stay steady, believe light is coming.

    Pocket I’m keeping

    When life feels like a long exposure with nothing on the sensor yet, don’t touch the tripod. Hold your ground. Keep praying, keep working, keep walking. The frame will fill.

    BTS (how I made it)

    • Arrived early to anchor composition on Walt & Mickey leading to the castle and sky
    • Tripod low, remote shutter to avoid vibration; manual focus set before showtime
    • Long exposure to “draw” fans and heart-shapes in the air; no flash to keep ambient color
    • Wide at 14–18mm to include crowd, statue, castle, and sky in one story

    Final reflection

    Walt’s “dreams come true” meets Elder Holland’s “don’t you quit.” Courage starts the dream; covenant faith finishes it. Stay close to Christ and keep moving—light always finds the faithful.

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  • MIT8 — “Roses, Stone, and Sky”

    Sleeping Beauty Castle at Disneyland framed by morning roses and a still moat. Low-angle composition, layered foreground-to-background for color, structure, and reflection.

    Intro

    The castle is storybook stone, but the roses are living color. Faith is like that—rooted, seasonal, and bright against whatever feels immovable.


    Excerpt

    I framed this low in the rose bed to stack three layers: blooms, castle, and reflection. The flowers pull you in, the bridge and turrets anchor the middle, and the sky opens the scene. The castle gets most of the attention, but the roses do the inviting.


    Notes from the Devotional

    “Make Jesus the light of your life. And then by his light, see everything else.” — Elder Neal A. Maxwell
    When the Light is first, everything else makes sense.


    Perspective

    “Sometimes it is better to be left out than to be taken in… It is better for you to be alienated from the gang than to be alienated from God.” — Elder Maxwell
    Beauty is not popularity; it’s alignment. Choose the view that keeps you closest to the Light.


    Practice (today, not someday)

    “Obeying is one of the best ways of exploring.” — Elder Maxwell
    Honor park rules and guests. Work within limits: arrive early, stay off the beds, wait for gaps in foot traffic, and compose from the edge.


    Final Reflection

    “Trust the Lord for he sees your possibilities even when you do not.” — Elder Maxwell
    The bloom you notice is rarely the only one ready to open. In time, a whole garden appears.


    Pocket I’m Keeping

    “Be very careful about what you let come inside your storehouse of memories. Those memories will be there for a very long time.” — Elder Maxwell
    I want a storehouse full of color and peace—moments of quiet light with people I love.


    Behind the Shot

    • location: Sleeping Beauty Castle, Disneyland
    • approach: arrive early; look for still water in the moat for a clean reflection; use flowers as a foreground frame
    • composition: very low angle, flowers as leading foreground, bridge arches and turrets for structure, negative space in the sky
    • settings (starting point): 16–24 mm, f/8–f/11, base ISO, shutter as needed; confirm nearest bloom focus; keep verticals natural
    • etiquette: stay out of the beds; don’t block paths; be quick and kind with guests and cast

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  • MIT8 — “The Dog With the Keys”

    Pirates of the Caribbean, Disneyland — the dog with the keys. Captured from a moving boat, manual exposure, 24mm at f/2.8, high ISO, no flash allowed.

    Intro

    The pirates beg; the dog holds the keys. It’s funny—and it’s a mirror. The way out is often right in front of us, but we still have to earn it: patience, timing, and steady hands in the dark.

    Excerpt

    No flash, no tripod, no second chances—just a drifting boat, dim lantern light, and the moment you either catch or miss. I rode the attraction several times, dialed in manual settings, and waited for the boat to line up with the dog and the bars. The frame finally clicked when the scene, the motion, and my breathing all settled together.

    Notes from the Devotional

    “Righteousness has to become a matter of reflex.” — Elder Neal A. Maxwell
    When the light is low and everything moves, you don’t have time to analyze; you respond because you’ve practiced. That’s true for cameras and character.

    Perspective

    “Don’t be discouraged if, in your lifetime, you seem surrounded and outnumbered.” — Elder Maxwell
    Surrounded by bars? Sometimes the key is closer than it feels. Keep your eye on it—and keep reaching.

    Practice (today, not someday)

    “Obeying is one of the best ways of exploring.” — Elder Maxwell
    Honor the rules of the ride—no flash photography is allowed—then explore within those limits: open your aperture, raise ISO, steady your body, and work the timing on each pass.

    Final Reflection

    “Believe in yourself not only for what you now are but for what you have the power to become.” — Elder Maxwell
    Low light doesn’t mean no light. There’s enough light to grow if you learn how to see it.

    Pocket I’m keeping

    “Be very careful about what you let come inside your storehouse of memories.” — Elder Maxwell
    This frame reminds me to stock my mind with moments earned by patience and restraint, not shortcuts.


    Behind the Shot

    • location: Pirates of the Caribbean, Disneyland
    • camera: full-frame body, 24mm f/1.4G
    • settings: manual, f/2.8, high ISO, shutter fast enough to freeze boat bobble
    • constraints: moving boat, dim practicals, absolutely no flash allowed
    • approach: rode multiple times, pre-focused, timed shutter as boat paralleled the dog

    Tips if you want this shot

    1. flash is not allowed on this ride—respect the rules, the show, and other guests
    2. use manual exposure; start around f/2.8, 1/125s, ISO 6400–12800 and adjust
    3. stabilize with breath control and elbows tucked; shoot short bursts as the boat glides parallel
    4. ride again; patience is part of the art

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  • Dreams Come True (On Quiet Nights at the Castle)

    Sleeping Beauty Castle after closing, colors breathing against a quiet walkway. Handheld patience, not luck.

    Story
    I didn’t grow up thinking “bucket list.” I just liked being with my family and carrying a camera. During my consulting years we were blessed with no-blockout annual passes to Disneyland and Disney California Adventure. I only share that to explain why we have so many pictures there—and so many good memories. The park was our long walk after a long week.

    I wasn’t chasing rides. Most nights I was chasing light. My kids and my wife did their favorites, and I did mine: “it’s a small world” for the melody I can’t shake and “Soarin’” for the way it makes your heart feel bigger than your chest. Between those two, I was usually off finding a quiet corner to photograph, waiting for the crowd to thin the way a tide pulls back.

    We spent more than a few Christmas Eves at the Disneyland Hotel and Christmas Day in the park—again, not to show off, just to be together somewhere that made us smile. In other seasons, when I worked with an aerospace team and later in perinatal healthcare, our groups sometimes held Christmas parties at Disneyland. I’d still slip away for a few minutes, because the castle looks different every night, and the fireworks give you one more excuse to try again.

    A lot of those photos are still on old memory cards from three cameras. I know—process them already. But there’s something honest about leaving a few dreams unwrapped. The parks taught me that: you don’t need a louder life; you need a longer patience.

    Walt said, “All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.” For me, courage looked like staying five minutes longer, carrying a tripod when my back complained, and coming back when the last shot failed. It’s a small practice, after all—but small things add up.

    If you see Disney or temple photos here, that’s what they’re made of: family time, a stubborn camera strap, and the quiet belief that good light rewards people who are kind and who stay.

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  • Keep Going When the Odds Say “Not Today”

    Monsoon rain, no guarantee, and a low chance of lightning. I framed Mokoliʻi between the bougainvillea, promised myself “ten more minutes,” and waited. The sky answered with a single crack of light. Most breakthroughs arrive between patience and presence. Keep going.

    Intro

    Hawaiʻi is famous for warm trade winds and sudden monsoon rain—but not for lightning. That’s why I stayed anyway. Between gray bands of rain, a single bolt cracked over Mokoliʻi, and the island lit up like a punctuation mark on the horizon. Some shots don’t happen until you’ve already decided to keep waiting.

    Excerpt

    “We cannot expect life to be a first-class experience unless we face some first-class challenges.” – Elder Neal A Maxwell

    Notes from the Moment (BTS)

    • Place: Windward Oʻahu, looking toward Mokoliʻi.
    • Weather: Fast-moving cells; rain/sun/rain cadence.
    • Approach: Pre-framed the island between bougainvillea and palms; stayed sheltered and watched the cloud build. Shot short bursts when thunder rolled; reviewed only after the storm passed.
    • Tip: On days when odds look low, decide ahead of time how long you’ll stay. The decision to wait removes the temptation to quit early.

    Perspective

    Lightning over Mokoliʻi is a reminder that rarity isn’t impossibility. Breakthroughs often arrive in the minutes after most people pack up. The skill isn’t just technical; it’s endurance plus attention—staying present long enough for grace to show.

    Practice (today, not someday)

    • The “Ten More Minutes” rule: when you feel like leaving—stay ten more.
    • Pre-frame & wait: set one composition and guard it. Let the moment walk into your frame.
    • Write one sentence: “I’m still here because ______.” (Name your why.)

    Final Reflection

    Storms don’t always bring danger; sometimes they bring definition. Keep going. The bolt you’re waiting for may be one cloud away.

    Pocket I’m Keeping

    “Rarity is not a reason to quit—only a reason to stay.”

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  • Marked In Time – “21 Guidelines for Righteous Living” – Elder Neal A. Maxwell

    Setting crescent moon over the Taylorsville Utah Temple at dawn—just left of the spire—captured as a double exposure with a 70–200mm f/2.8G lens.

    Personal Note
    I listened to this 37-minute devotional more than twenty times from yesterday to today. It felt like a magnet—I couldn’t let go of it. I even fell asleep with it playing.

    Intro

    The Three Forms of Suffering:

    1. Suffering from Sin and Stupidity
    Quote: “There’s the kind of suffering we undergo which is very real and that’s the suffering that happens because of sin and stupidity. We do dumb things. We do things that are wrong. And then we suffer.”
    This first type of suffering is a direct consequence of our own poor choices, mistakes, or sins. It’s a natural outcome of actions that go against divine or moral laws.

    2. Suffering as a Part of Life Itself
    Quote: “There’s a second form of suffering and that goes just because it’s a part of life itself. The scriptures say the Lord maketh the rain to fall on the just and the unjust alike.”
    This refers to the universal hardships and natural adversities that affect everyone, regardless of their righteousness. These are inherent stresses and strains built into the mortal experience.

    3. Soul-Stretching Suffering (The Highest Form)
    Quote: “But there’s a third form of suffering which is the highest form of suffering… There is that suffering brothers and sisters which we undergo in life because we believe because of who we are. It is that kind of suffering which comes to us because God loves us and will stretch our souls.”
    This is the most profound type of suffering, intended for our growth and refinement. It comes from a loving God who seeks to stretch our souls and help us achieve our divine potential, even when we don’t understand the reasons in the moment.

    Excerpt

    A beloved apostle mapped out a way to face “first-class challenges” with first-class discipleship—seeing suffering clearly, choosing joy over pleasure, and letting God stretch the soul He loves.

    Notes from the Devotional

    1. Make Jesus the Light of Your Life
    Quote: “Make Jesus the light of your life. And then by his light, see everything else. He is your best friend. And if you will worry most about what that friend thinks about you, you’ll be safe.”
    This counsel encourages prioritizing a relationship with Jesus Christ above all else. By focusing on what He would have us do, we can find true safety and guidance.

    Perspective

    7. The Difference Between Pleasure and Joy
    Quote: “Sometimes young people need help telling the difference between pleasure and joy… pleasure is plastic… It’s like the cotton candy you buy at the amusement park or the fairgrounds. It melts quickly in your mouth... But you will never find a substitute for joy.”
    This insight distinguishes between fleeting, superficial happiness (pleasure) and a deep, lasting state of being (joy). He reminds us that while pleasure is a temporary sensation, joy is an eternal principle centered in Christ.

    Practice (today, not someday)

    8. Righteousness as a Reflex
    Quote: “Righteousness has to become a matter of reflex. There are too many temptations and too many circumstances in life for you to always give an intellectual analysis of the sin or temptation… You’ve got to have good reflexes.”
    He taught that living righteously must become second nature. Through consistent practice, our choices should become automatic, allowing us to respond correctly to temptation without prolonged deliberation.

    The Loneliness of Righteousness (narrative bridge)#20

    Quote: “When Shadrach Meshach and Abednego three young men were thrown into the fiery furnace that was heated to a temperature so hot that the men who tended the furnace died. The scriptures tell us as the three of them walked around in the midst of that furnace unharmed The scripture then says ‘And there was a fourth figure in the fire and its form was likened to the son of God.’ When you are passing through these trials and some of those lonely moments the Lord will be especially close to you.
    Elder Maxwell used this powerful biblical account to illustrate that even in moments of extreme loneliness or adversity due to righteousness, the Savior is intimately present and provides comfort and protection. This reinforces the idea that choosing to live righteously, even when it means standing alone, brings us closer to God.

    Final Reflection

    16. The Stretched Soul
    Quote: “Believe in yourself not only for what you now are but for what you have the power to become… Someone has said that the soul is like a violin string. It makes music only when it is stretched. And because he loves you the Lord will stretch your soul.”
    This powerful analogy illustrates that growth requires discomfort. The challenges and hardships we face are not random but are purposeful, serving to refine us and help us reach our full potential.

    Pocket I’m keeping

    9. Guard Your Storehouse of Memories
    Quote: “Be very careful about what you let come inside your storehouse of memories. Those memories will be there for a very long time.”
    This is a call to be mindful of what we expose ourselves to, as our experiences and what we consume mentally become part of our inner spiritual landscape for the rest of our lives.

    What I hear now

    12. Bad Breaks and Disguised Opportunities
    Quote: “Remember that bad breaks need not ruin a good man or a good woman. They may even make him or her better as they did Joseph in Egypt… So often… in life opportunity comes disguised as tragedy.”
    This point offers a hopeful perspective on adversity. It suggests that even the most difficult experiences can serve as catalysts for personal growth and may contain hidden opportunities for a greater good.

    Link to the Devotional: “Guidelines for Righteous Living” Elder Neal A Maxwell, Oct 9, 1979 BYU-Idaho Speeches

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  • “Nobody gets too much heaven no more…”

    Autumn fire on the mountain after rain; an open doorway, wet boards, and a single chair facing the clearing light.

    Open door, lone chair, autumn mountain—proof that heaven isn’t scarce; it’s waiting to be noticed.

    Opening
    Some days heaven feels scarce—like peace is on allocation. We queue in long lines of noise and hurry, wondering if there will be any light left for us.

    The scene
    An empty chair by an open door says welcome without a word. The storm has rinsed the world clean; the mountain answers with color. See the chair—waiting in line. “Nobody gets too much heaven no more.” The Bee Gees were in my headphones when I made this image. It can feel harder to find, like we’re all waiting our turn.

    Reflection
    Their song dreams big: life that sees beyond forever, love that never dies, a warmth that turns the whole world into a summer day—and the fear that such love is only a dream that fades. I know that ache. Yet the doorway answers with abundance. Grace is already spilling through the threshold; the queue forms only in my mind. The chair is enough. The view is enough. God is not withholding; I’m just learning to notice.

    Scripture echo
    “Be still, and know that I am God.” —Psalm 46:10

    Practice
    Open one door in your day—fewer tabs, slower breath, a real chair by a real window. Sit long enough for the clouds to move.

    Final reflection
    The chorus says love is mountain-high and hard to climb. Looking out, I see the mountain—and I remember: in Christ, the climb is companionship more than conquest. Scarcity is loud; heaven is quiet. When I stop hustling for a place in line, I find I’ve been standing at an open door the whole time.

    Pocket I’m keeping
    A chair by an open door is enough. Summer arrives in the heart that makes room.

    What I hear now
    A gentle nudge: You don’t earn heaven; you notice it. Love doesn’t fade when you sit in the light.

    Credit
    Inspired by “Too Much Heaven” (Bee Gees). Brief lyric quoted; the rest paraphrased with love.

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  • Marked in Time — Be Still, and Know That I Am God

    Night photo of the Salt Lake Temple mirrored perfectly in a still reflection pool, symbolizing inner spiritual stillness and a life founded on Christ.

    Excerpt
    Be still—and know.

    Intro
    A journalist walked from a celestial room and whispered, “I didn’t know stillness like that existed.” Elder Bednar invites us past outer quiet into inner spiritual stillness—the kind that fixes our hearts on the Father and the Son, even as life stays loud.

    Notes from the Message

    • “Be still” is more than not moving; it’s remembering and relying on Jesus Christ in all times, things, and places.
    • Build on the Rock: Christ isn’t merely beneath us; we fasten our foundation to Him. Covenants and ordinances are the anchor pins and steel rods that tie our souls to bedrock.
    • Sacred time & holy places—Sabbath, temple, and home—train the soul in stillness and covenant focus.
    • As covenants deepen, virtue garnishes thought, confidence before God grows, the Holy Ghost becomes a constant companion—we become grounded, rooted, established, settled.

    Perspective (direct lines & scriptures)
    “Be still, and know that I am God.”
    “Remember, remember… build your foundation upon the rock of our Redeemer.” (Helaman 5:12)
    “Hope… maketh an anchor to the souls of men.” (Ether 12:4)

    Practice (today, not someday)

    • Give God sacred time: one unhurried Sabbath moment, one honest sacrament prayer, one temple appointment on the calendar.
    • Make home a holy place tonight: turn down the noise, turn up gratitude, read one covenant promise.
    • Re-anchor: Grounded • Rooted • Established • Settled.

    Final Reflection
    Foundations don’t hold by accident; they hold because they’re tied to the Rock. In a whirlwind world, covenant connection creates interior calm—the stillness where we know and remember: God is our Father; we are His children; Jesus is our Savior. From that stillness, we can do and overcome hard things.

    Pocket I’m Keeping
    Covenants are my anchor pins; Christ is my bedrock.

    What I Hear Now
    Be still—build on Him—do not fall.


    Link of the talk: Elder David A. Bednar — “Be Still, and Know That I Am God” (April 2024 General Conference)

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  • Marked in Time — Salt Lake Temple at Night

    Salt Lake Temple with bus light trails (5 s) and a second exposure for the moon’s detail—the driver was literally playing Don’t Stop Believin’.

    Excerpt
    Headlights, moonlight, and a bus playing “Don’t Stop Believin’.” Intensity 10+.

    Intro
    A passenger bus idled beside me on South Temple. I waited. When it finally pulled out, I opened a long exposure—the lights turned to wide ribbons across the Salt Lake Temple. Then I made a second, short exposure for the moon so its texture wouldn’t blow out. The street soundtrack? Don’t Stop Believin’. Right place, right song, right night.

    Notes from the song (what’s good in it)

    • Hope is a direction, not denial.
    • Ordinary people + late nights + small steps → real progress.
    • Community lifts courage; we don’t walk alone.
    • Grit and wonder can share the same frame.

    Perspective (direct quotes)
    “Streetlight people …”
    “Searchin’ in the night …”

    Practice (today, not someday)

    • One real step toward the work that matters.
    • Encourage one person by name.
    • Re-anchor: Grounded • Rooted • Established • Settled.

    Final Reflection
    Faith feels like this image: long exposure for the road ahead, quick exposure for the guiding light. The temple stands—reinforced at the foundation—and so do I.

    Pocket I’m Keeping
    Between streetlights, keep moving.

    What I Hear Now (direct quote)
    “Don’t stop believin’.”

    Soundtrack
    Journey — Don’t Stop Believin’ Official Link

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  • Overcome the World & Find Rest — Jordan River Temple

    Jordan River Utah Temple — Rain on Glass. iPhone shot from the driver’s seat; focus on the droplets to let the temple bloom softly behind. Light edit for contrast/clarity on the foreground drops.

    Excerpt
    When life is heavy, rest isn’t escape—it’s yoking with Christ and keeping covenants. Even through rain-blurred glass, the temple holds steady.

    Intro
    After sacrament it poured. I drove to the Jordan River Temple and stayed in the car, letting the storm drum on the windshield. Through a thousand raindrops, the spire stayed true. That quiet minute was my rest.

    Perspective (direct quotes)

    • Come unto me… and I will give you rest.My yoke is easy.” (Matthew 11:28–30)
    • Be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33)
    • President Russell M. Nelson: Covenant keepers have increased access to the power of Jesus Christ and are entitled to a special kind of rest through their covenant relationship with God.

    Principles

    • Rest comes with the yoke, not from running away.
    • The covenant path stays visible—even when everything else is blurry.
    • Small, steady acts (prayer, sacrament, ministering, temple) invite power and peace.

    Practice (today, not someday)

    • Name one burden and yoke it to Christ in prayer.
    • Keep one covenant action (text a ministering message, schedule a temple visit).
    • Trade one distraction for five minutes of stillness with the scriptures.

    Pocket I’m Keeping
    Covenants > chaos. I can rest while it rains.

    What I Hear Now
    “Walk with Me.” • “Let the temple teach you to rise.”

    Link to the Talk

    Full talk: “Overcome the World and Find Rest” — President Russell M. Nelson (Oct 2022 General Conference)

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  • Beat the 99% Wall: Upgrade Windows 10 → 11 the Easy Offline Way (Do This Before Oct 5, 2025)

    When the upgrade sits at 99%… don’t panic. Go offline and run the ISO upgrade the smart way

    Windows 10 reaches end of life on Oct 5, 2025. After that, it won’t get security updates. If you stay on Win10, your machine is a sitting duck for malware and attackers. Don’t procrastinate.

    If Windows Update keeps failing—or hangs forever at 99%—use this clean, offline upgrade that skips the flaky “checking for updates” step.


    1) First, confirm your PC is Windows 11–ready

    Use Microsoft’s official checker:
    https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/check-if-a-device-meets-windows-11-system-requirements-after-changing-device-hardware-f3bc0aeb-6884-41a1-ab57-88258df6812b

    Important: The most common blockers are the CPU and motherboard (TPM 2.0, UEFI/Secure Boot). If your device doesn’t meet Windows 11 requirements, it’s unsupported after Oct 5, 2025. Treat that Windows 10 PC as unsafe for internet use—either upgrade/replace the hardware, reassign it to offline tasks, or retire it.


    2) Prep (5–10 minutes)

    • Unplug non-essential USB devices (drives, printers, docks).
    • Ensure ≥30 GB free on C:.
    • Suspend BitLocker (if enabled): Control Panel → BitLocker → Suspend.
    • Temporarily disable third-party AV/VPN.
    • Clean Boot: msconfigServicesHide Microsoft servicesDisable all; Startup → disable everything.

    3) Reset Windows Update & appraiser caches (PowerShell)

    Open PowerShell as Administrator and run:

    net stop wuauserv
    net stop bits
    net stop cryptsvc
    
    ren "C:\Windows\SoftwareDistribution" SoftwareDistribution.old
    ren "C:\Windows\System32\catroot2" catroot2.old
    
    rd /s /q "C:\$WINDOWS.~BT"
    rd /s /q "C:\$WINDOWS.~WS"
    rd /s /q "C:\Windows\Panther"
    md "C:\Windows\Panther"
    
    net start cryptsvc
    net start bits
    net start wuauserv
    

    Then heal the image:

    DISM /Online /Cleanup-Image /RestoreHealth
    sfc /scannow
    

    4) Run the upgrade offline from ISO (no update checks)

    1. Download the official Windows 11 ISO (same edition/language/arch) from Microsoft.
    2. Right-click the ISO → Mount → note the drive letter (e.g., E:).
    3. Disconnect the network (unplug Ethernet / disable Wi-Fi).
    4. In elevated PowerShell, launch Setup with Dynamic Update disabled:
    Start-Process -FilePath 'E:\setup.exe' -ArgumentList '/auto upgrade /dynamicupdate disable /copylogs C:\$UpgradeLogs' -Verb RunAs -Wait
    

    (Optional quick blocker scan without upgrading):

    Start-Process -FilePath 'E:\setup.exe' -ArgumentList '/compat scanonly /dynamicupdate disable' -Verb RunAs -Wait
    

    5) If it still stalls

    • Drivers (most common):
      • Storage: Device Manager → Storage controllers → switch to Microsoft Standard controller (Update driver → Let me pick).
      • Display: use Microsoft Basic Display Adapter temporarily.
      • Remove extra language packs, old VPN clients, and heavy OEM utilities.
    • BIOS/Chipset: update from your PC maker’s support page.
    • Rerun the offline setup command.

    6) Pinpoint the exact blocker (2 minutes)

    If it fails again, run Microsoft SetupDiag and read the summary:

    mkdir C:\SetupDiag; cd C:\SetupDiag
    .\SetupDiag.exe /Output:C:\SetupDiag\SetupDiagResults.log
    
    • Codes like 0xC1900101-0x… usually name a driver (oem*.inf)—remove/roll it back and retry.
    • Dynamic-Update/Appraiser errors → repeat Step 3 and ensure you’re truly offline with /dynamicupdate disable.

    7) After success

    • Re-enable BitLocker, AV/VPN, and normal startup apps.
    • Reconnect the network and run Windows Update to pull fresh drivers and features.

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  • How We Contained a Mail Spoofing Incident in Microsoft 365 (with Scripts)

    What happened

    We saw spoofed messages and rogue auto-forward rules spreading from a few mailboxes. Root cause looked like mailbox rules + legacy SMTP AUTH exposure, not a server breach.

    What we did (playbook)

    1. Containment (no downtime): remove mailbox forwarding, delete suspicious inbox rules, and disable SMTP AUTH per mailbox (modern Outlook/OWA unaffected).
    2. Tenant guardrail: block external auto-forward on the default remote domain.
    3. After-hours cleanup: revoke sessions, reset passwords (force change), review/remove any unwanted OAuth grants.
    4. Hardening: enforce MFA/Conditional Access and disable org-wide SMTP AUTH only if not needed by devices.
    5. Verification: run a quick status report across affected users.

    Grab the scripts (sanitized)

    These are generic, no tenant data, and read users from a CSV:

    • GitHub Repo: https://github.com/jetdev2731/m365-email-containment-scripts
      • 10-Exchange-Containment.ps1 — clears forwarding, deletes suspicious rules, disables SMTP AUTH per mailbox
      • 30-Tenant-Guardrails.ps1 — blocks external auto-forward on the “Default” remote domain
      • 20-Graph-RevokeAndReset.ps1 — revokes sessions, resets passwords (force change), exports OAuth grants for review
      • 40-Unblock-And-Resecure.ps1 — post-cleanup fresh reset + ensure sign-in enabled
      • 90-Status-Report.ps1 — quick compliance/status check
      • 00-Inputs.ps1 — loads users.csv (header UserPrincipalName), optional safety toggles

    How to run (summary)

    Set-ExecutionPolicy RemoteSigned -Scope Process -Force
    cd .\scripts
    
    .\10-Exchange-Containment.ps1 -OutputDir .\
    .\30-Tenant-Guardrails.ps1
    
    # After hours:
    .\20-Graph-RevokeAndReset.ps1 -OutputDir .\
    
    # Once endpoints are clean:
    .\40-Unblock-And-Resecure.ps1
    
    # Verify anytime:
    .\90-Status-Report.ps1
    

    Lessons learned

    • Turn off legacy SMTP AUTH where possible.
    • Monitor and block external auto-forward org-wide.
    • Enforce MFA and Conditional Access for all M365 apps.
    • Regularly audit inbox rules and OAuth consents.

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  • “Peacemakers Needed” – President Russell M Nelson

    Salt Lake Temple, sunset from the JSB window. Waiting for the flare taught me: contention is toxic—anger never persuades; hostility builds no one. Be a peacemaker.

    BTS (behind the shot): From the Joseph Smith Building, shooting through the window glass with my trusty 14–24mm f/2.8 at 14mm. I bracketed exposures and waited for the sun to flare behind Moroni without losing the cloud detail. Patience, angle, and a clean pane made the rays sing.


    Excerpt

    When words run hot, the Spirit runs quiet. President Russell M. Nelson’s call—“Peacemakers Needed”—reminds me that covenant disciples build and bless, even under fire. Today I’m choosing to cool my speech, lift my neighbors, and let charity do the heavy lifting.


    Intro

    The world feels loud. But on the temple roofline tonight, light broke through and stitched the sky together. President Nelson’s sermon lands the same way: direct, steady, hopeful. Peacemakers aren’t passive; they’re disciplined disciples who speak higher and holier. This post is my small practice at that.


    Notes from President Nelson (Sep 2023)

    • Contention is toxic and common—even at home.Anger never persuades. Hostility builds no one. Contention never leads to inspired solutions. Regrettably, we sometimes see contentious behavior even within our own ranks… spouses and children belittled, angry outbursts used to control, ‘silent treatment,’ youth who bully, and employees who defame colleagues.”
    • Contention is evil.Make no mistake about it: contention is evil! Jesus Christ declared that those who have ‘the spirit of contention’ are not of Him but are ‘of the devil’… Those who foster contention are taking a page out of Satan’s playbook.”
    • What people really need from us. “If a couple in your ward gets divorced… a missionary returns early… a teenager doubts his testimony—they do not need your judgment. They need to experience the pure love of Jesus Christ in your words and actions.”
      “If a friend on social media has strong views that violate everything you believe in, an angry, cutting retort will not help. Build bridges of understanding.”
    • Peacemaking is a covenant choice. We can choose contention or reconciliation; charity is the antidote and the temple empowers us to cast the adversary out of our relationships.
    • Our standard of speech: If anything is “virtuous, lovely, of good report, or praiseworthy,” say that—to faces and behind backs.

    Perspective

    Peacemaking isn’t “peace at any price.” It’s covenant keeping with our mouths, our posts, and our reactions. The temple in view—Salt Lake—reminds me: God gathers, builds, and refines. If I’m with Him, my words should too.


    Practice (today, not someday)

    • Pause before post. If it won’t lift, it won’t live on my feed.
    • Bridge the gap. Ask one sincere question where I disagree.
    • Name the good. Offer one specific, praiseworthy sentence to someone who needs it.
    • Close the loop. Repair one relationship where my words cooled the room.

    Final Reflection

    Light rays don’t fight the clouds—they pass through and transform them. Peacemakers do the same with hard moments. Charity takes the sharpness out of sentences and puts strength back into souls.


    Pocket I’m Keeping (one-liner)

    “Charity is the antidote to contention.”


    What I Hear Now (direct quotes from President Nelson)

    • Anger never persuades. Hostility builds no one. Contention never leads to inspired solutions.
    • Contention is a choice. Peacemaking is a choice.
    • Make no mistake about it: contention is evil!
    • “If there is anything virtuous, lovely, of good report, or praiseworthy we can say about another… that should be our standard of communication.
    • Now is the time to bury your weapons of war. The pure love of Christ is the answer to the contention that ails us today.”

    Link to the talk

    President Russell M. Nelson — “Peacemakers Needed.” (Official text/video on ChurchofJesusChrist.org)

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  • Marked in Time — Sep 17, 2025 — We Can Do Better and Be Better

    Oakland California Temple — Night at the Fountain. I camped here for hours, waiting for the Bay’s rolling fog to clear so I could include the stars. Long exposure smoothed the water and lifted the temple’s glow. Patience + small adjustments = a better, truer image. Same with repentance.

    Behind the Scene (BTS)
    I camped at the temple for hours, waiting out the Bay Area’s rolling fog for a clear sky to include the stars. Patience paid off—and reminded me: I can do better and be better.


    Intro
    President Nelson’s message, “We Can Do Better and Be Better,” hits me in the best way—direct, hopeful, and actionable. Repentance isn’t a rare event; it’s a daily rhythm that unlocks strength, purity, and joy. Watching the fog clear over the temple, I felt the same invitation: step forward, again, today.


    Notes from President Nelson
    • Repentance is a process, not a punishment; it is “the key to happiness and peace of mind.”
    • When we choose to repent, we choose to change—to become more like Jesus Christ.
    • Daily repentance is the pathway to purity, and purity brings power (priesthood power is tied to heaven’s power).
    • The adversary is intensifying; we cannot be spiritually asleep. Put on the whole armor of God and get to work.
    • Honor your covenants, your body, and the women in your life—put people above screens and distractions.
    • The Lord needs selfless, covenant-keeping disciples who hear the Spirit clearly and act with integrity.


    Perspective
    Repentance is the Lord’s way of lifting, not shaming. A little better each day is heaven’s pace. Stars eventually break through the fog; so does grace when we keep showing up.


    Practice (today, not someday)
    • Do a 10-minute inventory tonight: What should I stop, start, or continue so I can repent daily? Write one sentence and act on it before bed.
    Honor a body choice: sleep, food, movement, or media—pick one thing and treat your body like a temple today.
    Put people first: one undistracted conversation (no screens).
    Covenant check-in: pray specifically for help to keep one covenant better tomorrow than today.


    Final Reflection
    The temple stands steady while water moves and stars emerge—that’s what repentance does for a soul. It anchors us while the Lord reshapes us. “Doing better and being better” isn’t grand theater; it’s small, faithful, repeatable steps that invite power from heaven.


    Pocket I’m Keeping
    “Daily repentance is the pathway to purity, and purity brings power.”


    What I Hear Now (direct quotes from President Nelson)

    1. “Brethren, we all need to repent. We need to get up off the couch, put down the remote, and wake up from our spiritual slumber.”
    2. “The Lord needs selfless men who put the welfare of others ahead of their own. He needs men who intentionally work to hear the voice of the Spirit with clarity. He needs men of the covenant who keep their covenants with integrity.”
    3. “I bless you to do better and be better. And I bless you that as you make these efforts, you will experience miracles in your life.”

    Link to the Talk
    We Can Do Better and Be Better — President Russell M. Nelson, General Conference (April 2019).

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